{"id":125050,"date":"2024-05-13T11:04:09","date_gmt":"2024-05-13T09:04:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.apartamentomagazine.com\/?p=125050"},"modified":"2025-07-17T19:51:35","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T17:51:35","slug":"hari-nef","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.apartamentomagazine.com\/stories\/hari-nef\/","title":{"rendered":"Hari Nef"},"content":{"rendered":" \t\t<div class=\"woocommerce\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"woocommerce-info wc-memberships-restriction-message wc-memberships-message wc-memberships-content-restricted-message\">\n\t\t\t\tTo access this post, you must purchase <span class=\"wc-memberships-products-grant-access\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apartamentomagazine.com\/product\/apartamento-membership\/\">Apartamento Membership<\/a><\/span>.\t\t    <\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"woocommerce\">\n<div class=\"woocommerce-info wc-memberships-restriction-message wc-memberships-message wc-memberships-content-restricted-message\">\n\t\t\t\tTo access this post, you must purchase <span class=\"wc-memberships-products-grant-access\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.apartamentomagazine.com\/product\/apartamento-membership\/\">Apartamento Membership<\/a><\/span>.\t\t    <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":128111,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[471],"class_list":["post-125050","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-interview","tag-film-photography","text_author-michael-bullock","photo_author-grace-ahlbom","membership-content","access-restricted"],"acf":{"link_archive":false,"archive_story":null,"archive_bg":"#F5F4EE","archive_title_color":"#000000","cover_bg":"#F5F4EE","cover_title_color":"#f76add","body_bg":"#000000","body_text_color":"#f76add","body_captions_color":"#dd3333","related_bg":"#ffffff","related_text_color":"#f76add","stories_bg":"#EDECEC","alternative_image":125239,"hover_image":125109,"credits":"Interview by Michael Bullock\r\nPhotography by Grace Ahlbom\r\n","title_format":"center","font_size":"medium","image_format":"cover","hero_image_mobile":125110,"video":"","video_excerpt":"","video_format":"regular","content":[{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_40_60","content_type_left":"credits","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":null,"video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":125237,"credit_link_left":{"title":"Get your copy! ","url":"https:\/\/www.apartamentomagazine.com\/product\/issue-33\/","target":""},"content_type_right":"text","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":null,"video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>New York City: Timing, they say, is everything. Some people are born under the right stars. This is an understatement for Hari Nef, who seems to be the right person with the winning combination of talent, looks, and attitude required to navigate this cultural moment and thrive. Nef has done the impossible: She left New York a well-known personality with a sizable online following and returned a few years later a legit Hollywood starlet. From the outside, this meteoric rise seemed instant. One moment, Nef\u2019s a memorable downtown door girl and Eckhaus Latta model, the next she\u2019s flirting with Ryan Gosling on the silver screen. Nef landed the role of a lifetime as the most iconic \u2018doll\u2019 in the world in last year\u2019s inescapable commercial tidal wave: <i>Barbie<\/i>. The film that defined the notorious character\u2019s values to the masses featured Nef as the brand\u2019s canonical doctor. And if this wasn\u2019t enough, that same spring, she appeared in another A-list\u00a0production, HBO\u2019s limited series, <i>The Idol<\/i>. Nef played Talia Hirsch, an emotionally manipulative <i>Vanity Fair<\/i> reporter who\u2019s on assignment profiling pop princess Jocelyn (played by Lily-Rose Depp).<\/b><\/span><\/p>\r\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>I meet up with Nef in her first adult apartment, a loft-like studio that straddles the border between the West Village and Chelsea with windows that open up to a view of the Whitney Museum of American Art. Her pink apartment (a few tasteful shades lighter than Barbie pink) mixes the formality of Hollywood Regency with the youthful cool of the downtown art and club scenes where she first got her start. It\u2019s a crossroads moment for Nef. Her ascension came on the heels of a decade of more indie projects and a dedicated social media presence in which the aspiring actor educated the world on how she was going to be received. Today the confident 31 year old is settling\u00a0into her next phase with a comfortable living space, a loving partner, and a handful of marquee cameos under her belt. Still, the feisty performer has her eyes on bigger professional prizes. Lounging on her new velvet turquoise sofa, she reflects on this new era and shares her one goal for the year ahead.<\/b><\/span><\/p>"},{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_50_50","content_type_left":"image","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":"","video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":null,"credit_link_left":null,"content_type_right":"image","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":125102,"video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":""},{"acf_fc_layout":"image","image_size":"full","gallery":[125114]},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Yesterday was your boyfriend\u2019s birthday<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">How did you celebrate<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We had a dinner for him at our friend Nash [Glynn\u2019s] place. We were up late. We came back here, woke up, drank coffee, and then I took him on a little walk to get his birthday present. He didn\u2019t know what it was. He was complaining that his mattress had sunken in the middle, so I brought him to Mattress Firm in Chelsea and told him to pick out any mattress he wanted. I thought, \u2018What a perfect gift to show support for my boyfriend\u2019.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Well, it\u2019s also a good gift for yourself<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">That\u2019s exactly what Nash said. I don\u2019t sleep over there as often as he sleeps here. He lives in Bushwick.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So, you have a long-distance relationship<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Well, we\u2019re both on the L train so it\u2019s not that bad. I think I might sleep there tonight, depending on where we end up. But yeah, we got the new mattress, came back here, hung out, and then went to HAGS for dinner.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">How did you and Ludwig meet<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We met through Cloe Young. They\u2019re really tight. One night, I FaceTimed her while she was at dinner with friends. She passed her phone to him, and he said, \u2018Hey, cutie\u2019, and I\u00a0was like, \u2018Game on!\u2019 That was all I needed to fully pursue him.<\/span><\/p>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_50_50","content_type_left":"image","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":125099,"video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":null,"credit_link_left":null,"content_type_right":"image","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":125107,"video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":""},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So, you knew of him before that moment<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We ran in the same circles and shared lots of mutual friends. I had seen him around, and I thought he was cute. And a year prior to us getting together we met outside of a club and talked about painting and writing for about 20 minutes without knowing each other\u2019s names.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You shared a similar perspective and understanding right from the start<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I think that a lot is gained for me from a synchronicity in terms of references, lived experiences, a shared social circle, lifestyle interests, all of it. That is tied to a queer experience. With Ludwig it\u2019s a rather ideal situation in the sense that we are both queer.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Are you from Boston<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Newton.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I also grew up in Massachusetts<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">You don\u2019t have the accent either<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sometimes I do. When I say \u2018horrah movie\u2019.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I know that well<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">My accent comes back when I visit my parents<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">An \u2018r\u2019 at the end of a word gets replaced with \u2018ah<\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u2019. \u2018<\/span><span class=\"s1\">Horror\u2019 is \u2018horrah\u2019, \u2018car\u2019 becomes \u2018cah<\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u2019. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">When you were growing up, what was your parents\u2019 style<\/span><span class=\"s2\">? <\/span><span class=\"s1\">How much of it did you absorb<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">My parents got divorced when I was two. My dad lives in Philadelphia, where I was born. I\u00a0primarily grew up with my mom in Newton. Her tastes progressed with \u201890s <i>Vogue<\/i>. She started off French country, Proven\u00e7al tapestries, tassels, and, you know, artichokes on the corner of the couch. She would be in a black silk Dolce &amp; Gabbana top which is not totally different from what I\u2019m doing now. Today she\u2019s gone full modern, somewhere between Kim and [Ye\u2019s] house and <i>Selling Sunset<\/i>. She likes clean lines and bright white light. She likes glass and stone. She values serenity. I\u00a0feel like I\u2019m probably more influenced by my dad\u2019s sense of interior decor. He always had a modern sensibility. His style has a sense of humour, irony, and urbanity. He\u2019s really into pop art. He owns a handful of Warhol\u2019s artist\u2019s proof prints. You know, this is the first space I\u2019ve ever lived in where I really considered the design.<\/span><\/p>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"image","image_size":"regular","gallery":[125108]},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Where were you before this<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I had a series of small, crappy apartments. And then I lived with friends in LA for a handful of years. It was a difficult, turbulent time in my life full of questioning. In early 2020, I\u00a0decided very impulsively to move back to New York and live in a neighbourhood I\u00a0wanted to live in, in a place that demanded me to move beyond IKEA.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Did you collaborate with anyone on the design of this apartment<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I was introduced to David Cafiero and Thom Lussier through Chlo\u00eb Sevigny. I asked them if they would work with me in some way on this place. They came to my apartment, and they said, \u2018It\u2019s not a big enough job, but we like you, so we\u2019ll advise on it\u2019. It was Covid\u2019s shelter-in-place period, and nobody had anything to do. Thom took measurements and made a 3D rendering of the apartment. I sent him things that I found on places like Chairish, and he would plop them into the space for me so we could see the proportion. They also sent me a PDF of pieces based on what I had articulated as my vision, and I\u00a0bought some of them. For others, I found corollaries. This couch came very much at my mom\u2019s recommendation.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s so luxe<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Did you have it reupholstered<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">No, it\u2019s new. There are only two new major pieces: the shelves and the couch. Shout out to Rove Concepts for the sofa. The supplemental pillows are from ABC Carpet &amp; Home. The\u00a0faux fur comforter is from Walmart. The Elfa shelves are from the Container Store. Everything else is vintage or secondhand. I got most of it on Chairish because during the pandemic people were accepting doomsday offers.<\/span><\/p>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_50_50","content_type_left":"image","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":125098,"video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":null,"credit_link_left":null,"content_type_right":"image","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":"","video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":""},{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_50_50","content_type_left":"image","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":"","video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":null,"credit_link_left":null,"content_type_right":"image","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":125106,"video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":""},{"acf_fc_layout":"image","image_size":"full","gallery":[125103]},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I love your formal nightstand lamps<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Cute, right? Those are vintage Chinese lamps.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And the elephant in the room, so to speak<\/span><span class=\"s2\">? <\/span><span class=\"s1\">The most radical thing about your home is that you live with multiple larger-than-life images of Naomi Watts and Ewan McGregor<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">That series of enlarged Polaroids is by artist Stephanie Schneider. She took them on the set of the movie <i>Stay<\/i> directed by Marc Forster. It\u2019s a very trip-hop, somewhat silly 2005 film that I refer to fondly as \u2018<i>Mulholland Drive<\/i> for boys\u2019. Naomi knows I live with these images of her. I\u00a0have shown her pictures of this living room. She thinks it\u2019s cool. Or, at least, she\u2019s cool with it. <i>Mulholland Drive<\/i> is a touchstone for me. That\u2019s where I fell in love with her and her work.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Why does that movie resonate with you<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Because it\u2019s one of the only films that does justice to how twisted my job is. That\u2019s what being an actress for hire feels like. David Lynch articulated that beautifully. Also, I just really like the way these photographs look. I like the tension between the man and woman. I like that he\u2019s in a suit and she\u2019s in a T-shirt. And I\u00a0like that it matches my couch.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Plus it gives you a New York City skyline<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Can you tell me about the image above your bed<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">That\u2019s from Slim Aarons. It\u2019s a bunch of models shooting a fur catalogue in Gstaad.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span class=\"s1\">They\u2019re hanging out, having drinks. I thought Slim would fit in well with my old-school-meets-new-school aesthetic. Here\u2019s a painting of Joan Rivers.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Are you a fan<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">When I was shooting <i>Barbie<\/i> in London, I was in an Issy Wood music video for her song \u2018Both\u2019. Lena Dunham directed it. I\u2019ll do anything with Lena, so I was excited to do it. That painting was my payment.<\/span><\/p>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"image","image_size":"regular","gallery":[125113]},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Did you always want to be an actor<\/span><span class=\"s2\">? <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Is that what you studied in college<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">At Columbia I majored in drama and theatre arts. I was studying Chekhov and Shakespeare. I love being on stage. I love doing it every night, the endurance of it. I love discovering new things in the performance. I love the danger of liveness.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What was college life like for you<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It was difficult. It was challenging, but I was certainly more than tolerated. I mean, if you treat people with kindness and have a certain degree of charm and do your homework, you can get by at a school like Columbia. I made some really great friends, but I never felt like I was among my people which is why I was living my Hannah Montana life and going downtown, going to parties and openings, and sneaking into fashion shows. I was looking for my people.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Where did you first find them<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">At Susanne Bartsch parties. On Thursday night she used to throw this party called Van Dam at a club called The Greenhouse. Ladyfag would do the basement and Amanda Lepore, who I idolise, would always host. Alexis Penney invited me to perform outside of my school for the first time, and she was in with Ryan Trecartin, Cody Critcheloe, and the <i>DIS<\/i> [magazine] people [David Toro and Solomon Chase]. That\u2019s how I met all of them. I was gagged that people from the internet like Amanda and Ryan were just accessible to me. Later I joined Chez Deep, this artist collective that included Alexis, Sam Banks, Colin Self, and Bailey Stiles. I thought that they were all so cool because they were remaking queer culture and aesthetics through this postmodern lens, thinking about technology and the internet. A big part of my life was synthesised by this group of artists. And also, Shayne Oliver! Hood by Air (HBA) was the first show I\u00a0ever walked. In 2011 I walked for HBA and Eckhaus Latta on the same day! That was the birth of me as a model.<\/span><\/p>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"two_blocks","block_sizes":"half_50_50","content_type_left":"image","image_size_left":"regular","image_left":125095,"video_left_url":"","video_caption_left":"","video_left_type":false,"text_left":"","credit_image":null,"credit_link_left":null,"content_type_right":"image","image_size_right":"regular","image_right":125100,"video_right_url":"","video_caption_right":"","video_right_type":false,"text_right":""},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What was your first professional acting role<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It was actually all because of Cynthia Nixon. Her trans son, Seph, showed her a video of one of my performance pieces. I originally thought I was going to be a performance artist before\u00a0I decided that I was going to be an actress. I\u00a0didn\u2019t think someone like me could cut it as an actress until I saw Laverne Cox on <i>Orange Is the New Black<\/i> on this new thing called Netflix, and I was like, \u2018OK, interesting\u2019. Cynthia invited me to audition for a reading that she was doing. I got the part, but the play didn\u2019t get produced. The artistic director of The New Group, Scott Elliott, saw me in that reading and had me come in to audition for a part in another show that he was doing. It turned out to be Jeremy O. Harris\u2019 play, <i>Daddy<\/i>, and I\u00a0got the part. So right when I graduated, I\u00a0was confirmed to do this Off-Broadway show.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Who did you play<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I played a nepo baby gallerist named Alessia. I often get cast as these executive types.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">You do have alpha energy<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span>","answer":"<span class=\"s1\">And then I got the call from <i>Transparent<\/i>. So, my internet-ness had reached all of these people. At that time, there weren\u2019t a lot of people doing what I was doing.<\/span>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">Your \u2018internet-ness\u2019 is exactly what helped inspire lots of teens who saw you as a role model, people like Ser Serpas, who is now a well-respected artist<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span>","answer":"<span class=\"s1\">Yeah, she was actually encouraged to go to Columbia by watching me on the internet. She messaged me when she was a senior in high school. I\u00a0said, \u2018Yeah, it\u2019s fine. Come. Apply early\u2019.<\/span>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">Your presence online was already that strong when you were in college<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span>","answer":"<span class=\"s1\">I was prolific on Tumblr and Facebook. Instagram was just starting to be a thing. Ser took me to her dorm room, and she had a collage on her wall that had a picture of me in it. She\u2019d probably cringe if I told you that, but it\u2019s true.<\/span>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">Amazing that your visibility had such a big impact on her<\/span><span class=\"s2\">.<\/span>","answer":"<span class=\"s1\">I\u2019m only a year or two older than her, and she says she\u2019s my firstborn.<\/span>"}]},{"acf_fc_layout":"image","image_size":"full","gallery":[125109]},{"acf_fc_layout":"interview","interview":[{"question":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What about your social media image do you think connected with her<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span><\/p>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I think the fact that I was this person who was dressing very outlandishly, being photographed at parties. The fact that I attended an Ivy League school. She basically saw somebody who did not sacrifice her self-expression, and at that point I embodied an identity that was considered \u2018exotic\u2019.<\/span><\/p>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">People often focus on the negative side of social media, but you have been able to use it powerfully<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">I recently watched an <i>i-D<\/i> video of you from 2016 where you explain how these platforms have given you and your peers the opportunity to build a universe around yourselves and show the world how you want to be seen<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">In that film, you say the next step is to see how these individual universes work together in communities<\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Where do you think we are at with social media now<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span>","answer":"<span class=\"s1\">I think that possibilities have spread, and novelties have become tolerated, mundane, and accepted\u2014even loved and celebrated. I think I got away with a lot of narcissism and myopia just because of my gender identity and the novelty of it. There were high stakes for the dignity and safety of trans people. There still are. I think that they were higher and more incendiary when I was younger. A lot of those things applied to me and my lived experience. I think a lot of them also didn\u2019t. My whiteness and my privilege and my education shielded me from a lot of that. You know, I\u2019m not sure <i>i-D<\/i> would have made a video about me if I\u00a0had been cis.<\/span>"},{"question":"<span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s quite a trajectory from bohemia to <i>Barbie<\/i><\/span><span class=\"s2\">. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">I think it would be irresponsible of me not to ask you how <i>Barbie<\/i> changed your life<\/span><span class=\"s2\">?<\/span>","answer":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">For a very brief moment it put my name into the centre of the cultural conversation, and it made my face and voice familiar to people. It has certainly been an invaluable complement to my fashion hustle, which is how I make the majority of my money. Being a part of <i>Barbie<\/i> is something that no one will ever take away from me. But at the end of the day, I\u2019m such a small part of such a big film. Just because I played a character named Barbie doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m essential to that film. Did <em>Barbie<\/em> change my life? Absolutely. 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